A dying art form

Hello and good morning, I just finished reading this article and found it worth forwarding. I am placing the web link for it here:

http://www.renewamerica.com/columns/duke/100301

Why some Christians aren't Christian and simple facts are given. Something to think about the next time any of us find ourselves not wanting to be confrontational with our faith and our views. Confrontation as was explained to me by a Diocesan approved program is not a physical altercation or cruising for a bruising. Confrontation is a practice of giving opposing view. An art form that is not practiced much anymore in our culture is debate. In consensus, participants of a group are asked and relied upon to give their true thoughts and beliefs about something. All members are given five minutes to say their piece while the others only listen (key operative being listen) and no immediate response or retort is given, all members have their say. This gives a window into the mental and emotional goings on of the group. Once all have spoken it is easier to move forward as a group and not as an individual who desires to run rough-shot over everyone else. Consensus is difficult for many and even large corporations hire experienced group discussion leaders to help a department reach consensus because as individuals we want to be "right." Consensus may show that we are off track or that we are different in our thinking from others, it may show us for who we really are and that is getting too close to the quick of our mask that we cover ourselves with. It is easier to argue with someone about being right than to sit with someone and have a respectful and open ended discussion.

The author is not talking about consensus I feel it necessary to bring up consensus.
I believe that educated, responsible, mature adults can reach consensus on many issues. I'm not saying it will be a completely agreeable process and there will be some descent among members but in all, by and large each member is allowed to speak their piece without being cut off or told they are stupid. Each person is, for at least five minutes, heard by their piers and for many in our walk today that will seem for them like they have received the greatest gift. To be heard, that in our society today is one of the most prevailing causes as to why some people snap, they act out, because others around them don't want to listen. It would be the Christianly thing to do.

Be an open ear for someone today, just as Jesus is for you, every day.

Lou.

May you have a Jesus filled day